Wednesday, March 24, 2010
Im Going To BLog Again!!
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
I started planning for my son’s first birthday party when he was about six months old. I started with Internet searches for boyish themes and ideas and then poured over craft books and magazines for more inspiration. At the time, I was feeling pretty ambitious and even thought about what sort of cake I would bake and how it would be decorated. I consulted friends to see what types of parties they had for their kids or what kind of parties they were planning to have.What I found was a wide range of ideas of what a first birthday party should be. I had one friend who wanted it to be family only, at home, with a simple cake and just a few presents. Then I met a another friend who told me she had a carnival themed party for her one-year-old, complete with pony rides, a popcorn machine, and clowns. The carnival idea was cute, but way out of our budget. Not to mention that my son and his friends were at an age where clowns would’ve terrified and popcorn would’ve choked them.
So I decided I would try to fall somewhere in the middle. I would invite his cousins, friends,clown and a sand art booth for the kids.I planned to ask Azrina( My Goodie- good friend) to bake the cake.I needed a theme.Both my sons love to watch BARNEY.That made me to choose BARNEY as the theme,complete with purple and white everything would be prefect. The idea for his cake was coming together, too. I would just make a rectangle shaped cake with BARNEY’S head in it with pink canned icing; chocolate flavored.
I went to one place where I did a mental tally of just the basics I would need and it added up to nearly RM 360 ( just for the party packs). Yikes, I would certainly have to scale back my plans a little so we would be able to afford to buy her a present, too.I still I haven't figured out what my son was going to wear to the party. I want to dress him like a prince.
Thursday, June 26, 2008
My second Edition
My Little Boy...Danendran
Smile Please.............
Exactly like the father right?
My two Darlings........
Friday, May 9, 2008
International AIDS Memorial Day ( Press Conference)
Press Conference ( 08.05.2008)
Candle Of Hope
Proff with Dato'Zaman...Lighting Up d Candles Of Hope
2nd Shot.........
Talking To The Press
Talking Emotionally........ 
Yes....Proff...is also Talking.Emotionally too....
Q & A
The Committe Of IAMD
Press...
Love Box ( Condoms)
Dr.Mahalingam Frm India (APAC),Pari,& Guna
Jenny & Guna
Me & Guna
hehehehehehe...Its Us...The annual International AIDS Memorial Day (IAMD), also known as the International AIDS Candlelight Memorial (IACM), is the largest and oldest grassroots mobilisation campaign to enhance HIV/AIDS awareness in the world, according to the Global Health Council which co-ordinates the event worldwide. This year marks the 25th year of the event worldwide.
The IAMD or the IACM is more than a remembrance event. It serves as an opportunity to educate on HIV/AIDS, create community dialogue and awareness on HIV/AIDS and the myriad of issues surrounding it, including stigma and discrimination, prevention, care and support, and treatment for the People Living with HIV/AIDS (PLHIV).
This event, which will be held locally, also supports and inspires new PLHIVs who will be attending their first IAMD. Besides that, our Partner Organisations (POs) are carrying out 13 activities this year with their own communities.
This year, the Malaysian AIDS Council plans to open the IAMD to the public.
Date : Saturday, May 31, 2008
Time : 7.30pm – 9.30pm
Venue : One Utama Shopping Centre, New Wing (main entrance)
Highlights of the event, which will be graced by Deputy Health Minister Datuk Dr Abdul Latiff Ahmad, include:
Performance by local artistes
Showcase by People Living with HIV (PLHIV)
Candle lighting
The focus of this year’s IAMD is:
Widen the network of PLHIV community by ensuring participation by HIV infected and affected people who have never attended IAMD to join this year’s event Highlight hope for those infected and affected by HIV/AIDS; and Motive for active participation in advocacy at every level on HIV/AIDS related issues.
Quotes: “This is the first time we are celebrating IAMD with the community in an open door concept. I hope this will empower People Living with HIV (PLHIV) and raise awareness amongst us all” says Professor Dr. Adeeba Kamarulzaman, President of Malaysian AIDS Council & Chairman of Malaysian AIDS Foundation.
“IAMD will give us an platform to rededicate ourselves to the fight against HIV/AIDS” says Datuk Mohd Zaman Khan, IAMD Organising Chairman & Malaysian AIDS Foundation Trustee.
Thursday, March 27, 2008
BONDS
BONDS BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE
- When you feel misunderstood or you are being taken advantage of in your relationship.
- If you feel that whatever you say is misinterpreted and not taken as you meant it.
- You find yourself weak and impotent while confront your partner
- You suspects character or moral of your partner, knowingly or unknowingly
aversion to have sexual relations with your partner. - Either your partner or you or both of you find jealous, malice, hatred or envy for each other
- Certain pressure or obligation makes you speechless before your partner
- It seems like you have made bad choices in relationships and now it has developed disgust feeling about partner's habits.
- You find your wavelength cannot be tuned to your partner's
- You find yourself weak in communication and often get the wrong impression when you try to communicate with your partner or colleague.
- You find your relations are worsened and surplus of fighting over the period
TELL-TALE SIGNS TO WOMEN TO LOOK FOR
- Significant changes in your partner's grooming habits. Examples of this would be changing aftershaves, joining the gym, getting a new hairstyle, frequent bathing and buying new underwear.
- Your partner working back late in the office or suddenly having to be away on "work" trips more often. Of course, if your spouse's paychecks don't reflect all this extra work, then it might be time to monitor the situation to see if there is any pattern emerging (eg. keeping track of the mileage on the car, the time he leave for work and the time when he comes home). You discover, by accident, that he took time away from work but never mentioned it to you.
- - Cell phones are a common way for cheaters to communicate with their lovers. Suspicious behavior could include your partner buying a separate cell phone and setting up a separate phone account (that is billed to his office), without telling you. Even if your husband or partner doesn't have a separate cell phone, an itemized bill of calls made might prove illuminating (e.g. whether a certain number has been called frequently. Another tell-tale sign can be the deliberate deletion by him of all incoming phone calls from the caller ID!
- Home telephone calls, particularly incoming calls where he uses a low voice or hangs up quickly, may be a clue. Going out on the balcony to make or receive calls out of earshot may also raise your suspicions.
- Cheaters may have a change in sex life. That is, he stops having sex with you or he suddenly wants sex more often (see, it's not all bad!), as well as out-of-character sexual requests. Take the opportunity to check out those unexplained bruises on his neck or those scratches or back while you're there!
- Of course, there are the obvious tell-tale signs such as lipstick on his collar or the smell of an unfamiliar perfume on his body (or his clothes). The wedding ring in the back pocket of his trousers is usually a dead giveaway! What about those small, unexplained gift items? Who's thong is that? If he shows an uncharacteristic desire to be helpful with the laundry, check his underwear for secretion stains! While you're at it, check his wallet, pockets and the glove compartment of his car for condoms, unexplained receipts and pieces of paper with addresses or phone numbers on them.
- Another sign is a drop off in the amount of money going into the bank. When a man is having an affair, it usually costs him money. You know what we mean - flowers, wining & dining, romantic gifts, dirty weekends away (on the pretext of work) - money he should be spending on you! Keep an eye on whether he is spending more money than usual, by checking his bank statements and account balances, his check stubs, credit card bills and so on.
- Certain activity on the computer/internet is often a big warning sign, particularly if he spends a lot of time on the computer after you have gone to bed! Email is also a common method of communication and cheaters will often delete all incoming e-mails and outgoing emails to avoid detection. He may even have set up a new e-mail account without telling you anything about it.
- If your Intuition or gut feeling is that something is not right, then this is often the best indication that your spouse or partner may be cheating on you. When in doubt - check them out!
The Internet has made it easy for people to be tempted. Virtually anyone can jump on the net, join a chat group and very quickly find someone to play with. There are thousands of online websites solely dedicated to married men and women who are LOOKING to have an affair! There is also a direct correlation between the Internet and the ever-increasing incidence of marriage breakdown.
For women who cheat, it tends to be the guilt that catches up with them. For women who discover that their husband or partner has been cheating on them, it can be devastating. They never really thought that infidelity could happen in their relationship. Finding out that your "significant other" has been cheating on you, via the Internet, email, chat software and webcamming can be a real shock. Pornography is often a frequent part of this "online infidelity". It can often be going on right under your nose AND in your own home! If you suspect that this could be happening to you, don't get mad ......Get the evidence, then get as mad as hell!
Tuesday, March 18, 2008
To Truly Love God is To Love All Beings In The World Equally
